Is Darinne Ko a victim or a willing party?

After reading about the case of Sex for grades from the papers, I can't help but feeling sad for the parents of female student Ms Ko...

Parent's responsibility
All children are born sinful (Romans 5:12-19). Their natural self is destructive and unrighteous. That does not mean they aren’t infinitely valuable and worthy of love (Psalm 127:3). It means that they are not born with any natural “goodness” in them.

That is why all children need discipline. Proverbs 22:15 says “Folly is bound up in the heart of a child, but the rod of discipline will drive it far from him.” Discipline is critical for wisdom (Proverbs 29:15), and a child who obeys his parents will be wise (Proverbs 13:1). And even adults who do not heed correction will feel the consequences of their foolishness (Proverbs 10:13).

To provide that direction for their children, parents must take the job of being parents seriously. Being a parent is much more than fulfilling a biological function. It means being concerned about every aspect of the child's growth and development. It means caring where the child is and who his friends are. It means knowing his interests and encouraging right and proper ones and discouraging - even forbidding - those that are inappropriate or dangerous.

Ms Ko mentioned that she loved him (Prof Tey Tsun Hang) but stop short on what is the reason for her love? Did he shower her with gifts and nice words? I see it as a sexual grooming in the part of a more senior male mentor, he make used of his postion to influence her "love" for him. It will be sad if she knew it all along and played along to get her "Grades" as suggested by many!

What is worst... there are more students involved in his sexual fantasy, the red sofa in his university office.

Prof Tey's latest move about giving Ms Ko a cash cheque worth $2,500 for all the gifts and treats he received really pissed me off!
http://sg.news.yahoo.com/darinne-ko-had-an--abortion---cpib-officer-002658081.html